And now I already feel afraid in this forum to answer as I would like in a free speech world (which some do not like).
So calling @vige (or any @moderator which is not public and unknown to us!) to move this out -as it also may be interpreted as offtopic to the title and may become flagged / ‘censored’- into a new topic with title ‘Feature request - e-mail app should offer immediate deletion / erasure’ and maybe a second one with title ‘Anger - what SFOS could be but is not’.