Mail is totally unreliable with microsoft mails

There’s a certain irony here, that M$ is blocking access to hotmail, unless it’s being accessed via one of their approved methods.

That’s basically what Google did to Microsoft with Youtube and the like when Google made all of its services ‘break’ when accessed over Windows Mobile.

What might be a workaround is to have hotmail forward all your messages out to another email address, provided by someone else (which hotmail is happy to do).