@throwaway69, just to confront you with the reality here at FSO:
@vige
… is not a “sailor” (i.e. employee of Jollyboys): IIRC he left the company when Jolla was transformed into Jollyboys.
… it seems a how to avoid the mass flaggers is now a daily topic that needs a faq
There are FAQs for this from Jolla’s perspective: They are mentioned in this thread and copy the content of Discourse Inc.'s discourse FAQ, which IIRC resides in Discourse Inc.'s discourse instance.
can you maybe tweak some discourse values?
AFAIK sailors never did that, will not do that and likely cannot do that, because this discourse instance is a SaaS run by Discourse Inc. with its default configuration and Jolla likely choose to rent this forum software as SaaS to have no administration efforts at all; consequently I expect no sailor to have acquired the knowledge for that, actually that became quite clear in some of their replies in this thread.
At least this ensures, that this discourse instance behaves exactly as Discourse Inc.'s discourse instance: The details are denoted there.
or properly address the topic
As pointed out in this thread, discourse was likely chosen for FSO, because Discourse Inc. promises discourse to cause no moderation efforts at all, because “the community will moderate itself” by exactly the flagging and vanishing messages mechanisms discussed here. The first couple of years Jolla also strictly adhered to the no moderation premise, as you can read in this thread. I am very glad that this changed about a year ago, and I am also glad that the moderation is … well: moderate. But if you look more closely you might discover that the active moderators are all ex-sailors AFAICS.
TL;DR
Do not expect an answer, but the implicit answer (provided by actions, the lack of them, or the lack of answers which really answer something) is very likely a “No” to all your points.